10. SURRENDER IS THE ESSENCE OF A HAPPY LIFE. Letting go is not giving up. Letting go is surrendering any obsessive attachment to particular people, outcomes and situations. Surrender means waking up or showing up every day in your life with the intention to be your best self, and to do the best you know how, without expecting life to go a certain way. Have goals, have dreams, aspire and take purposeful action, but detach from what life must look like. Set reasonable goals for yourself. The energy of someone aspiring to create their dreams, teamed with passion and knowledge, is far more powerful and creative than someone determined to create outcomes with a blind and desperate ‘must have’ or ‘know it all’ mentality. Learn to “wait for it” and then capture the moment to use to your own plan and your advantage in life. Remember that ultimately acceptedness and Surrender will bring inner peace and joy, and unless we forget that our outer lives are a reflec...